Tuesday, March 09, 2010

Pussycat to Lioness

I am feeling geram at the moment.

The main reason i published some photos in Fb was to update my relatives back in Malaysia about us living here. I bet it is the most effective and fastest way.

This morning, i posted some photos of us at the Water Garden. We went there yesterday's afternoon. And as you may know, mostly are Milan's pics.

See, my girl has little hair. I myself has no idea on why it is like that. And again, like her teeth, i don't feel there's a need to worry about it. They will grow eventually. And i find it very disturbing when someone (in her case, many people) asks;

- why isn't her hair long already?
- did you cut her hair? it seems like it is not growing.
and the list go on and on...

So, about the Water Garden pics. There were comments that i don't really like and i don't think i'll reply to. On this photo;



Comment 1: rambut cacak kedak rambut miak laki! :)
(the hair is spiky like a boy's! :) )

Comment 2: miak laki make skaf,, lawak jak rupa :)
(a boy wearing a hairband, funny :) )

I cut and pasted the exact words from Fb. And if it happens that the person who commented the pic reads this, let me tell you. In future when you are a mom (both unmarried yet) you will know why your comment sound unpleasant to me. I'm fine if people think she is too active, naughty etc but not looking at her as a BOY! Don't you ever let my daughter hear about it or else...i can turn into a very mean lioness.

To my friends, i am a very open-minded person. You can shoved anything right to my face and i still can smile or even laugh with you. But, to my child. It's a massive NO-NO.

My child is a GIRL, hair or no hair. To me she is the prettiest, hair or no hair.



P/s: i e-mailed a friend on my bump during my pregnancy. Her response was "kedak orang boroi" (read: nampak macam orang perut boroi). Oh yeah? If i was evil enough i might have tell her the same thing on her pregnant photos in Fb.

14 comments:

Tiq said...

hehe garang nyer ...

Anonymous said...

Ooo....memang! kekadang org tak hengat perasaan org.
Time sya jd model wedy, ada kan disanggul ala2 balinese @ indonesian gitu. Amboi bukan main lagi komen masyarakat kat gambar tu..."makcik jual jamu la, jamu founder, gambar iklan first lady la...eee...murah apa baju kurung kat first lady tu. Lawak la tu konon, tp time org sakit wanita hahaha it's not lawak.

CarolRG said...

Tiq, ya la ku padah mun belom ada anak tek, aku sgtla sik kisah. say anything...i'm still fine. but, sampe madah milan miak laki...wooo!!!

Pey, mungkin juga mau dtg penyakit wanita sbb yet dah kena tu, hehe. tp, mmg la. kalau sy nak bg komen pun fikir dulu perasaan org bah.

Tiq said...

but whatever it is, she is the doll!!! cuteness everrrrrrr ok

Hida Naza said...

dah sik ada idea nak komen kali..tapi mauk juak komen. ya sukati jak..aku lok sik berambut juak kecik2..dah besar lebat dan tebal sampe rimas mun dah panjang.

Wedy Reira said...

hehe, mun org mdh milan miak laki, rais nang orang salu madah macam pompuan. mebe sigek sebab aku biar nya ambut pjg. aku maok ambut nya macam ambut anak omputeh nok boy salu abut bulat ya.. heheh.. kakya curl2 gik ambut rais kat ujong2. and then maybe muka nya ada feature girl. biasalah ya, mulut orang sikpat tutup.

CarolRG said...

Nor, nya la. mun sikda idea nak ngomen, iboh lah nak. tok gago juak sia.

Dy, susah juak mun org ckp lepas jak kdk ya. gine kah rupa anak daknya kelak. siap madah lawak gik ya...adoh eh.

YourFriend said...

ya la...berhati hati bila berkata..kekadang orang sigi suttttttt...enda nemu undang-undang bercakap!

Gna Eb said...

Mommy Milan, aku suba nadai meh bok ko mommy aku until now, ndang sigi bok kurang. Org ba kilang (my neighborhood) ngangau aku Pak Aji, due to nadai bok. Tapi org ke so called "ndai pelajar" commented yg pelik2 vudusss la.. Eh jaik juak mulut aku tok kowh.

CarolRG said...

Endun, nya meh. ckp ikut sedap mulut.

Gna, agi meh bajik dah besai neh. taja pan nadai bok maia mit, hehe. engka sigi ka pms kami wai. haha...nya nyu ringat nda lama.

Embau said...

aduh..kasih tudah dara milan..
nemu amai ngetat ke diri posing...
betemu sekali da kitai ila bisi kwn milan...

Anonymous said...

sya maioh buk time mimit, masa baru lahir....besar2 ni ala2 gondol plak dah...tebalik kes ni...

CarolRG said...

U, kawan Milan pia? hehe...best, best

Ape, ya itu masalah bila dah agak 'dewasa'. saya mmg tak byk rambut dari kecik. bila dah meningkat 'remaja' ni, lagilah. lepas beranak lagi lah Pey :)

treasurekeeper said...

heh...sapa sik sayang mulut & tangan ya..sukati jak.

hannah pun selalu dipadah boy coz sikda berambut gilak.mun kmkorg klua and Hannah makey dress, ada juak urg nego kedak boy makey dress..nang geram la..sib bait tgn tok sik laju jak singgah rah pipinya ya..huhu

sabar jak lah dear ok :)

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