PDA on Social Networks

On my way back from Milan's school this morning, heard an interesting topic on Flyfm. About showing PDA (Public Display of Affection) on social networks.

Since the 'P' is for public, I guess there's nothing wrong with that. Provided you really mean it and don't go overboard.

Some people see that as a 'show off'. Just to show the world that you and your partner is the most loving couple of the century. Ladies love to do this kind of thing. But not all partner would 'layan' such thing. I know mine would not. And I don't like PDA'ing' on social networks myself. My 'P' is for 'private'.

Kalau sampai 'hi sayang, dah makan ke?' pun nak letak dekat Facebook, takde maknanya. Nampak sangat spending times on Facebook instead of having quality time with each other.

Anyway, it's personal preferences. Some love it and some find it is annoying. Zher said she wanna puke! Lol!

Butternut Squash

Hello again dollies.

I am using this apps for pregnancy called "I'm expecting'. Ok, truth is darling hubs was the one who downloaded it for me.

Now I am in my 29weeks. Last check up my weight was 55kgs.This pregnancy I try to really 'watch' what I eat.I just don't believe in craving anymore. Of course there were few occasions where I just submit to it especially when it comes to nasi lemak. But I'll skip the telur mata. Lucky thing I don't fancy teh tarik.

Talking about the birth plan. We had 2 hospitals nearby our place. One is smaller and slightly cheaper. The other one is larger and I like their service. And of course I need to like my OB. I have experienced a male OB with my 2 girls. This time I am seeing a lady OB. The lovely and motherly Dr Mazita. Darling hubs did asked me once, why do I have to go to the 'slightly expensive' one. Not that he is being calculative or what not but just wondering. I told him, I need to have a great and supportive OB. And I jokingly told him, the costs don't even compensate half of the agony I will have to go through in bringing out his child to this world.

In case you are wondering why is the title of this post as such, that's the baby's size at 29 weeks. I am referring to infos given by the apps.I am one petite mom who will get sudden amnesia when it comes to pushing the baby out,so size does matter for me. When the time comes, I'll go 'which muscle to concentrate on again?'.

To the 11 more weeks to come, be nice. And that reminds me that we don't do much shopping for the baby yet. This time nothing much left for hands me down. Especially the daily wear.

Alrighty, I'll be back. If the daddy agrees we'll announce the gender in the next post. No guarantee though.

Have a nice day ahead. Much loves.

Maid Madness

I guess semua orang pun dah tau and tgh bengang dgn kes maid yang lambung baby tu. I first saw it dkt a friend's punya Facebook newsfeed. Tapi memang tak nak click the video clip. Until last Sunday, terasa nak tgk Melodi. Tertengok dkt buletin utama.

Tak tau nak describe perasaan tu mcm mana. Nak mengamuk,marah2 tak tentu pasal dekat maid tu mcmlah dia rasa or dengar pun kan.So rasa sedih and kesian. Anak kucing pun orang yang berperikemanusiaan tak buat macam tu.Inikan anak orang.

Pastu macam biasa, some golongan yang 'concern' sangat ni suka la nak komen dkt Facebook kan.I read this guy's comment in bernama Facebook page.Something like,

'bukan salah baby tu.Yang salah mak dia sanggup bagi anak dibawah jagaan orang lain demi mencari kesenangan dunia..mencari rezeki tanggungjawab suami etc..'

Apahal pulak fikir macam tu? Not everyone's lucky to have the chance to stay at home and jaga their kids. Then darling husband pun cakap,dia pun pernah dengar a guy cakap 'apasal mak2 zaman sekarang TAKNAK jaga anak2 sendiri'. Taknak? Hello,bg statement tak agak2. With the cost of living zaman sekarang ni mmg susah. Kalau we as mothers tak nak jaga anak sendiri, we all takde nya nak beranak ok. Ingat senang ke nak pregnant pastu going through the excruciating labor pain.

Read that the baby is in HTAA hospital since he was not quite well. Be strong baby.

Pi Mai Pi Mai

Milan finally went to school today after skipped school since last Friday. The teachers at school told me,most kids are coughing too at school.

Now the bug got into Sophie's system. Poor baby. Dahla petite, so bila sakit and lost appetite makin mengeciklah si comel mommy tu.

Mommy too is having sore throat and blocked nose. The daddy too. Lucky thing, we didn't plan for any vacation for the upcoming CNY holiday. We'll just stay at home, quarantine ourselves and hopefully everyone will be up and running when the holiday is over.

Hormonal

One thing about pregnancy that I like the least is the hormones changes. I find it hard to deal with my own self. I get too sensitive. And it's super hard when your surroundings or people around you just don't understand. Macam, ya ampun...senang sangat nak tersentap.

Macam mana nak deal with that? I seriously have no idea how. I try not to express myself through Facebook or Twitter sebab nanti macam 'menyusahkan' orang lain je. Menyusahkan as in 'apahal asyik up status meroyan'. The best thing I can do for now is to think of the happy thoughts.

But for now tengah sentap and tengah fikir apa 'happy thoughts' nak layan.

Maybe sebab anak2 tengah talk sihat so mind pun tak happy sangat. Lets just hope for better days ahead. Itu resolusi year 2013. Nak happy happy. Anything or anyone yang makes us unhappy, buhbye.

*gahhh...jiwa sentap lagi

Little people Big love

I am in my 26 weeks. Tiny bub is kicking actively in my belly. This is the phase that I love the most.

The phase that you enjoy so much because the baby is moving. Your are not 'ballooning' that huge yet. No swollen ankles yet. No back pain yet. Aaahhh...babymoon phase.

The latest baby bump pic. I don't know how to play with Photoshop. Oh well, I have stretch marks alright. Nevermind, I carry them with pride :).

Mommy Care Unit

I am trying to make a post from my mobile phone. Kalau berjaya,selalu lah agaknya update. Sambil tidurkan anak pun sempat rasanya.

Sophie is under MCU (Mommy Care Unit) tonight. Fever. So kesian that she needs to be up because I need to send Milan to school early morning tomorrow. Can't imagine my life in June. Takpe, lets just think of happy thoughts.

Goodnight dollies.

Hi Again

It feels like ages since i last update this blog. Life has been great, with my awesome girls. But right now, they are both down with flu and the eldest has slight fever.

Milan has started school. Kindergarten year 1. She loves going to school. She just doesn't understand that why she needs to stay at home on Saturdays and Sundays. The only reason that she can accept for that was "her teachers need to rest for 2 days". Yesterday morning, upon entering the school gate, a boy came and hugged her tight. With her school bag on her back, they held hands and walked to the school playground. When she came back from school,i asked her why did the boy hugged her and what is his name. Her answer was:

"Mom, boys like girls. And girls like boys too. His name is Ryan (or Rayyan). Like Firhan, he is a good boy"

I guess i'm cool with that. But, of course in few years time i need to start teaching her about 'the birds and bees' :). 

Sophie is in her 'Terrific 2' phase. Moms would know this. She's a no.2 and in the 'T2' phase. Enough said. Though i would love to think that it's so cliche but sometimes it's just true. Unlike her elder sister, Sophie is a little bit shy and talk less. And tiny in size too. At 2y2mos, she weighs only 10kgs. Well, i don't really mind since she looks happy and healthy.

For those who might not know yet (because i don't put this up in facebook. Only twitter and instagram), I'm pregnant with no3. Now at my 25 weeks. Yay! Went to have the detailed scan this morning. Everything looked 'cantik'. That was how the ultrasound specialist put it as she scanned every details. Praise the Lord. Hopefully everything goes well and the baby comes out healthy. This time, if everything permits, i plan to take epidural for the delivery. But then again, we never know ;).

The gender? Of course we know already. But, lets just keep it as a surprise until mid May. I can hardly wait for the D-day to come. Till then, here's some shots of the baby: