I was having a chat with a friend the other day. On how her husband treated her differently lately. With the birth of their daughter, the husband seems to pull away. Moody all the time. Accusing her for having an affair. She doesn't go out with her friends anymore. She'll go straight home from work. The husband somehow turned into someone jealous. There was once, the husband hit her when he was drunk. And the baby almost fell from her arms. I was speechless. I can feel the tense, but i am nobody to judge anybody. I could only listen and gave some words of comfort. She was up to the extend that she wants to be divorced and ignores the fact that they were just married for 3 years.
That is the salt and pepper of being married. Some husbands stops their wives from wearing makeups or dressing up. I find that ridiculous. Your wife needs to feel good about herself in order to feel good around you. And you just have to trust her for that.
Anyhow, to all the single ladies out there, do not think that i scare you with this story. It is just a true story for all of us to know.
** Ada jugak partner yang takda langsung deria jealous ni. Tak kisah lah bini / awek buat apa. Too much of trusts? Ke mmg jenis yang tak kisah langsung. Sometimes perempuan ni nak lah jugak rasa di'kisah'kan. Kalau tak kisah, rasa macam everybody else je treatment nya, nothing special. Laki sapa lah tu?
9 comments:
*gertakan*tidak menguggat ms donut..Keadaan diatu semakin hari semakin kuat dugaan ya..antara cekal dan tidak..
Ya aja meh ngasai nama utai diasai ya neh..ka nyebut sabar nya sigi nda masuk ga,..focus agi anak dulu,anak nda nemu utai,...pray!!!
sometimes rasa takut nak kahwin sbb x sure what will happen after getting married. apa yg kita nmpk before, x semestinya sama dgn after kan..huhu
Endun, yes...antara tabah dan tidak. perkataan SABAR mmg tak boleh pakai. SABAR tak menyelesaikan masalah.
p/s: i don't like the word "SABAR" itself.
Vee: betul tu. tak tau nak ckp macam mana. mmg ramai yg dah berubah lepas kawin. tapi tak semua. best of luck to you dear :)
i know someone close yang gila jeles nak mampus dengan wife sampai dah ke tua. aku pun sik faham. tok nang terover jealous ok. up until wife jaga maknya sakit kat hospital pun nya marah dan anok yang bukan-bukan, adakah patut nya madah wife nya ada affair dengan doctor sebab yalah wife nya stay kat speta. adakah patut? laki aku pulak jenis sik penjeles. huhu. tapi mebe ada jeles juak sikit tapi sik nampak lah. huhu.
Dy, i respect the wife sbb sgt sabar kan. laki aku pun bukan jenis penjeles juak. kali sbb kita dah berkawan lama ya daknya trust kita. tedah eh aku nangga the way laki treat mun kaki penjeles.
sob sob sob ..
kasih mai ninga kawan nuan nya u,
especially macha anak ka terlepas ari arms ya....
Beb, kesian your fren. sigh...all we can do is just pray for her and she needs to pray so God to show her the right way.
But what about if you have an almost perfect husband but you married into the WRONG family. hmmmm....that is a whole lot of shit too.
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